Monday, January 11, 2010

TIPS FOR NEWELY WED COUPLES

1- Never forget romance
Don't underestimate the power of a sweet word or a warm caress, a candlelight dinner accompanied with music, it can work wonders.
So despite of your hectic schedules find the time to express your love and never take your partner for granted.

2- Don't lose the sense of humor
Trying to lighten up a gloomy situation, looking at the bright side of the things would certainly be the positive and right way to deal with the difficult times.

3- Keep the respect for each other
If you don't have admiration for each other, things will not work. An indication of lack of compassion, good manners and mutual respect especially during heated discussions or difficult situations will be the poison that kills your love and marriage gradually. Don't let anything get in the way of respecting each other.

4- Don't handcuff your partner
Marriage is not a prison sentence; it's a lifetime commitment of love, companionship and understanding. You both need breathing space, that way love will flourish and grow.

5- Don't struggle over authority and power
Marriage is certainly not a battle field. You are not opponents, you are companions. In a marriage you must learn to compromise and to let go every once in a while, if you find your partner is getting ready for a big fight, surprise him/her by giving in, then you can find the right time for a comprehensive discussion if necessarily.

6- Be honest
Face your problems, admit that they exist and work on solving them. Hiding behind a screen will not make them disappear, and ignoring them will only build them up into a dormant volcano ready to erupt at any time, pouring out lava of pain, anger and disappointment.

7- Keep the balance between giving and taking
Love is all about giving, but mind you, this does not mean that one party should take advantage of the other; it can't mean endless giving from one partner and endless taking from the other. There is a thin line between the two partners of giving and taking each in his way.

8- It is just the two of you
Keep your marriage details and problems for yourselves and donĂ¢€™t let people influence your marriage. Always remember that anyone
beside you and your partner is a third party even your mother, sister, and best friend.

9- Keep marriage sexually satisfying
Don't be embarrassed to talk about your sexual needs or fears with your partner, if you are not satisfied in bed or if you feel that your partner has a sexual problem, choose the right moment and discuss it with him.

10- It takes time
Both of you are used to different things, different habits; how you eat, when you sleep and even when and what to watch in TV, so you have to understand that it is take time and effort from both of you to get used to living together.



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Caution!
Experiment and have fun, but be sensible. Don’t push your body beyond its physical capabilities. If your body begins to ache, cramp, or experience any discomfort, then stop and try something different. There are many other positions that may be more suited to your body type, flexibility, and athleticism. Over 11,000 people each year are injured while trying out new sexual positions. Please be careful!

Taking great care of our ladies (inside and outside the bedroom) and making them feel special is important to me. Many ladies are self-conscious even in the basic sexual positions, let alone in some of the variations where her body could be scrunched up in the most unflattering ways. She may be worried about how she looks to you. Be sure to pamper her with flattery. Tell her how much you enjoy her body, remind her how hot she looks, and tell her how much you enjoy the fact that she is adventurous enough to try out new positions with you. I think you are a lucky man. Make sure she knows you think so, too.

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